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ESO and the Art of Extended Sexual Orgasm

 The Art of ESO – Extended Sexual Orgasm Powered by PurPlay

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By KT Mars

ESOESO – How you and your lover can give each other hours of Extended Sexual Orgasm (ESO) is a book written by two doctors in the early 1980’s.  It is by far the best book on sexual pleasuring I have ever read and it changed my sex life forever.  The people at PurPlay asked me to try it using ESO the book as my guide.  I jumped at the chance and the results were mind blowing.

First, My Experience With ESO Using PurPlay™

ESOPurPlay™ is an artists tools where the canvas is the sexuality of the male and female body.  I whole-heartedly believe that adults pleasuring each other for hours is the pinnacle of sexuality.  Intercourse is fine for those kitchen table quickies, but studying, learning and giving the art of sexual pleasuring exchanging orgasms is what PurPlay was designed and made for.

The art of ESO requires an in-depth understanding of your sexual desires and body parts while asking for and receiving pleasure.  The fun part is the homework.  Practice makes perfect for pleasure givers and receivers.

ESO Sex Starts Between the Ears

“Sex starts between the ears,” Dr Ruth Westheimer once told me.  Building desire and anticipation starts to move men and women to a crescendo of feelings and emotions is the key to sexuality and orgasm.

When I interviewed Bob Root, the designer and formulator of PurPlay, he made and interesting analogy that nailed what ESO was about.  

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Bob said, “Think about planning and making a 5 star meal for your boy friend or girlfriend.  Think now that you have been planning the meal all week, shopping on lunch breaks for the best ingredients, accoutrements and that special bottle of wine that you love.  That special Saturday evening comes and you begin to prepare.  You pour yourself a glass of wine and begin to prepare the meal.  You spend three or four hours prepping, arranging and cooking.  That special person arrives and you greet them with a warm kiss.  You sit down to eat and they gobble the meal down in 5 minutes.  Well, that is sort of the way many people have sex.  Anticipation builds for days and it is over in two minutes.  Just wrong!”

As I talked more to Bob, it became clear that PurPlay was designed and developed for ESO.  I personally believe the book and PurPlay should come in a package together because they fit together like hand and glove.

PurPlay is about multiple orgasms for woman and the elusive “Quad” orgasms for men.  For men, it also facilitates “Edging” where the partner pleasures them to the edge of orgasm and back down numerous times until they can’t take it another moment and explode into ultimate sexual pleasure.  

PurPlay and ESO for Multiple Orgasms

What I learned about PurPlay is that it facilitates both multiple orgasms and edging because the herbs in PurPlay Surf and PurPlay Astra stimulate female nerve receptors to natural go to extended sexual orgasm…ESO.  For men, there is conjecture that the herbs do the same thing, but much more subtly.  Women report beginning to feel the effects in a few minutes.  PurPlay instructions say that it takes about 5 minutes.

So, I read ESO and had my guy read it to.  We both were very hot after the read and acknowledged that just about everything would take practice.  The concepts of how PurPlay works made even more sense after reading ESO.  My guy is very girl sex savvy and gentle.  I explained how PurPlay works and that it would take about 5 minutes for me to begin noticing intensity.

It normally takes me about 15 to 20 minutes of building foreplay until I orgasm for the first time.  On occasion, I can orgasm four or five times in a session.

What happened next was mind-blowing for me and my guy.

He applied PurPlay Astra to my vulva area focusing on my clitoris.  We began to kiss and play normally and building slowly.  It was about 5 minutes and I began to feel like I was sinking into an uninhibited heap of hot sex.   After about ten minutes we were very hot and deep and I orgasmed with a literal explosion.  We were not having intercourse, but playing like ESO suggested.  Normally when I have an intense orgasm, my guy stops and waits for the afterglow to subside.  After reading ESO, he did not stop and switched where his play was focused on.  Amazingly, he hit areas that I did not even know I had.   

What happened was amazing.  I had another orgasm in just a couple of minutes and it was more intense than the first.  He kept going and I kept cuming.  Each time I came faster and harder.  I became very selfish wanting more and he obliged with different play introducing toys and moves.  I lost count, but I think I orgasmed 10 times before the last one came as a constant orgasm that did not stop for over two minutes.  He said my vaginal contractions were non-stop squeezing, releasing and squeezing.

I have never been so sexually high in my life.  Was it ESO education or PurPlay?  Both I think which makes them invaluable beyond belief.

Normally, I would have been exhausted, but I wasn’t. It was his turn.

I first talked to him and told him how I was going to “edge” him for as long as he could take it.  I asked him to tell me what he liked and what he wanted.  I am a very open sexual partner and will try anything, but I wanted him to participate by instructing me where to go and what to do. After reading ESO, he was right there with me and he looked forward to the attention.  He admitted that intercourse sex is hard work and he liked the idea of just laying there and experiencing the pleasure.

I began to play using PurPlay to focus on his testicles lightly caressing and squeezing them.  To my surprise, he really liked it and wanted me to squeeze harder.  I sensed that he was actually close to orgasm, so I kissed his belly moving up to his lips.  I kissed him for a while to bring him down slowly and nicely. 

I kept trying things I learned from ESO and he would climb and then gently cool down.   I did this for over an hour and he was out of his mind.  I thought he would ask be to take him up for the big O, but it became clear to me that he was in ecstasy.  I did a spray of PurPlay to the head of his penis and stroked him through to his orgasm.  He came so hard that he was screaming in pleasure and he kept pulsing for a very long time afterward. 

After he would ejaculate in the past, I would stop and just hug him.  Per ESO, as he pulsed, I rubbed his testicles lightly until he finished and fell relaxed.   I kept rubbing him and in about five minutes, he became erect again.  This time I took him off very quickly again rubbing with PurPlay Astra.  He came even harder and ask for more. 

The third start up took a little longer, but he became erect again.   This time I tried sitting between his legs and rubbing his testicles and thighs while I stroked his penis.  He came again higher and harder.  This time the pulsations seem uncontrollable and lasted longer. 

He asked for more, so this time I kissed him hard and deep while rubbing his testicles, but this time I started to squeeze them very hard to the edge of pain.  He became erect again very fast as if the cooling down between orgasms was no longer necessary.  Yes, I gave him the elusive quad which guys generally only dream of.  He was in so much ecstasy he could not talk.

Here is the big part.  When we stopped our play, it was over 4 and a half hours since we began.  Honestly, I have never felt closer to my guy because he totally trusted me because I totally trusted him to give me pleasure without immediate return satisfaction.  Pleasuring was intense and like neither had experienced before.

So the above is the best review of the ESO book and PurPlay that I can give.

So, a little about the book!

ESO: How You and Your Lover Can Give Each Other Hours of Extended Sexual Orgasm by Dr Alan P. Brauer and his wife Donna

Through years of research and clinical work, Doctors Alan and Donna Brauer have developed an amazing technique which will revolutionize readers sex lives, exploring the mental and emotional as well as physical aspects.

It is graphic and very instructive.  I learned so much about feelings, touch and intimacy.  

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My first copy was a used dog eared version because the book was out of print went I first discovered ESO circa 1983.  I had heard of people paying over $200 for a copy.  Then I discovered that it was back in print “on demand.”  It is now available at Amazon in paperback form, but no Kindle.  Frankly, I like turning the pages and seeing the graphic images of what to do.

So here are two thumbs up to ESO, the book, ESO the best thing to happen in my life and to PurPlay for enabling ESO.

Lastly, get your own copy, read it and have your partner ready it.  Then have a conversation across the table from each other.  Then play, practice, practice more and play more.   There is time in your for ESO and those kitchen table moments as well.

Buy this Book

 

Play Hard, Love More!

One reviewer offer, “Many sex guides suggest techniques; this one teaches an approach through which one can learn and invent new ways of touching and being with each other. And it’s not just useful for couples – there’s a lot of useful material in here for solo exploration, too. While some techniques are described, they are offered with a degree of humility that invites you to experiment.

They (wisely) recommend that partnered activities wait until each person has attained a certain level of skill on his or her own. You’ve got to show that your engine works before you ask someone else to make you purr. And you will purr, or make whatever other noises you’re inclined to make, when you’ve trained your partner how to handle you properly.

The advice is pretty simple: learn to talk with each other, tell each other what you like and don’t like, and take turns demonstrating the former. While they offer some structured exercises through which to apply these principles, and a few suggestions for initial exploration, this book is neither prescriptive nor proscriptive.

My two favorite things I learned from this book, I learned experimentally, by following their suggestions:

1) I learned that it’s possible to give, and to receive, a climax that lasts 90 minutes or more.

2) I learned how to do that.

I think my second favorite would have to be the kissing exercise.”

KT is a fictional writer of books, magazine articles and blogs on subjects of human interest. Her writings style and topics are often controversial and to the point.